There were so many great ideas in this post that I felt compelled to re-post almost the entire page! You can find the original
here at Snippet & Ink.
"One way to keep costs down, and still include absolutely everyone you love, is to have a dinner that leans toward the casual end of the formality spectrum. The key to making it special is not only in the guest list, but also in the details. The example I've chosen is a crawfish boil, one of my favorite social meals of all time. I'd definitely recommend offering warm washcloths at the end of the meal, or providing an outdoor faucet of some kind for washing hands. If crawfish isn't really your thing, a picnic, barbecue, or potluck are other fun ways to go.
The Plan: Casual Dinner
Mood: casual, family, fun
Palette: red, white, yellow, kraft paper brown"
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10 Ways to Save:1. Mix inexpensive flowers and foliage (daisies and greens) with pricier ones (tulips, garden roses, dahlias), and wrap bouquets with a pretty ribbon.
2. A
crawfish boil is simple and an inexpensive way to feed a lot of people: crawfish, sausage, red potatoes, and corn on the cob, all with spicy seasoning.
3. Ask friends and family members to bring
homemade pies and
tarts, then arrange them on cake plates of various heights. It's a great way to save money, and to include people in the day.
4. String lights are such a simple element, but they really add a lot to a venue once the sun goes down. You can wrap them around trees or a deck railing, or hang them to create a border around the dance floor.
5. This idea is sweet, simple, and inexpensive. Clean out two large mayonnaise jars (the economy size) and label one
"Take A Wish" and the other "Give A Wish." Fill the first with folded notes from the couple (or quotes, song lyrics, etc.), and have paper and pens for guests to write notes and place them in the second jar.
6. A casual dinner means casual dress, which (as far as I'm concerned) means comfortable shoes. And at $37 - $50 a pair,
these Vans are a great choice! Also, when you're not trying to find a ballgown, it's a whole lot easier to find reasonably-priced dress options. This adorable eyelet one from
J.Crew is only $395!
7. One of the great things about a crawfish boil is that there's no dishware needed! But I would definitely provide guests with a serious napkin. And if you want to assign seats, write guests' names in chalk or white paint on a small smooth rock. It's thoughtful, but still casual.
8. Save by giving in-season fruit as a favor. Here,
glassine bags are trimmed with
scalloped edge scissors and filled with cherries. Any leftovers can be eaten or used for baking!
9. Did you see
Deanna's beautiful invitations that she and her fiance made themselves for under $2 each? If you're creative, crafty, and/or comfortable with a computer, make your own invitations! Or get a creative friend to do it for you. This one that I made, using clipart I found online and free fonts that I downloaded from
dafont.com, was inspired by
Unless Someone Like You's wedding posters. Also, keep in mind that 2-color invites can be significantly cheaper than 4-color ones.
10. Instead of flowers at the tables, or alternating between flowers, provide guests with cowboy hats (or any container) full of crayons. Cover tables with kraft paper, and let guests draw to their hearts' content.
Bonus Tip: Beer makes a whole lot more sense at a crawfish boil than champagne does, and it's easier on your budget. Fill metal tubs with ice, and then stock them with bottles of your favorite brews, as well as soda, water, and juice.
Splurges:1. Live band. A casual, outdoor wedding with all of your friends and family just cries out for a really good band. I'd pick a local blues band, but anything you can dance to will really set the stage for having a big ol' time (for those of you not familiar with this saying, it's what my dear Mississippi friends call "a good time").
2. Wedding posters. Mailing these out in mailing tubes will cost more than mailing regular invitations, but they really set the tone for a fun event. A fun idea is to have one at the reception for guests to sign, then frame it as a keepsake."
Wow Kathryn! You're amazingly creative!
Alright bridesmaids!! Here's your mission, should you choose to accept...
I have absolutely fallen in love with these cards!! I think they're what I'll use for the cake recipes... now, I just need to find a spinning display rack!
Maybe something like this?!?
Mom's been busy!!! Here's the 25 (!) cake plates that she's tentatively matched from mis-matched glass found at thrift stores, garage sales and many other places! Our cakes are going to shine!!!
These are the lanterns and vases that we've been collecting!! Look how nice with the sunflowers! (that Worth suprised me with, he's amazing!) So far we have a vase for the gift and guest book table, a lantern for every dinner table, a vase for the head table and one extra vase. There was another, but it met with a tragedy in the Hobby Lobby parking lot. Sad day.
What an amazing idea! I don't know that we're having a ton of kids at the wedding, but how neat is this! Crayons. Such an easy babysitter!
This couple used an old typewriter for their guestbook! How amazing!
Here's fun papers used for notes. It'd be neat to have some fun customized stickers. (:
These are cute... I don't know how much I like it though... I'd want a fun jar to toss them into.
There are a ton of creative ideas in this "library" inspiration board from Snippet & Ink. Maybe Library cards or even vintage looking cards printed with a typewriter?
This is a great(!!!) idea! I love the thought of these colorful framed postcards on the wall in our new home, or postcards put into a photo book for us to glance through for years to come! How fun! And what a neat conversation starter!
Here's a guest book on recipe cards... Unique! I think it might be a little too hard to understand for some guests though.
"One way to keep costs down, and still include absolutely everyone you love, is to have a dinner that leans toward the casual end of the formality spectrum. The key to making it special is not only in the guest list, but also in the details. The example I've chosen is a crawfish boil, one of my favorite social meals of all time. I'd definitely recommend offering warm washcloths at the end of the meal, or providing an outdoor faucet of some kind for washing hands. If crawfish isn't really your thing, a picnic, barbecue, or potluck are other fun ways to go.
These are so much fun!!
These paper flags are by {frolic} here. They would be neat in the courtyard, but might take away during the ceremony... What do you think??
The butterflies are so neat as a little detail! Maybe a neat idea for a shower or something! And they're so very easy to make!
Martha gives a slightly difficult "how-to" for these paper lanterns here.
These candle holders would be neat also. Any ideas on how to DIY??
These are a fun and FESTIVE way to dress up a space!
These paper flowers are found on Martha Stewart's website, I thought they were adorable! I wish there was a way to hang them around the courtyard!
These paper hearts are the inspiration for the favors... They're plant-able paper chock full of wildflower seeds! I want to try and make them via this recipe:
Found: Paper hearts by Spoon Sisters
These are the paper fans that we ordered for the wedding (: Hopefully they'll keep everyone cool!
This sunflower from world peas is amazing! Does anyone think that they could reproduce this??
These programs are handmade, and they look amazing! I think I want something like this for... something. I don't know what, but I'll find a place for it!
I think it's time to start looking for neat details like this for my little cake buffet. These are so much fun!
Look! They're so neat! I bet we could make a bunch of these out of mason jars and hang them in various places...
